Saturday, April 25, 2009

The day a mango tree fell from heaven...

It was around 1:00p.m. Elle Marie and I just had lunch. Elle has been sick for two days. After lunch, I confined her in Tita Bebe's room to watch her DVDs while I continue to make her a new green dress in the terrace. Despite her sickness, Elle was still hyperactive, she was clinging on the glass window in Tita Bebe's room in the effort to watch me make her new green dress.


I know that our neighbor is cutting down their mango tree that has been there for centuries. (Let me refer to the tree owner as Neighbor 01) It was the tree that supplied us with indian mangoes every summer; the tree that provided shade for Mama's flowers; the tree that attracted birds; and the tree that made our second floor cool. However after our other neighbor (Neighbor 02) complained about the red ants and falling mangoes on their roof in the middle of the night, Neighbor 01 decided to cut it down.


I heard a sound that seemed like a very big branch coming off the tree. It happened in split seconds, the very big branch stood on our Neighbor 02's roof. Even before I could scream, I saw the tree moving toward our house! It was like watching a movie with a big tidal wave. People are running but some just stare until the tidal wave swallowed them. I also froze. In my mind I know that the very big branch will reach me but i did not do anything until I remembered Elle! I run away from the terrace and near elle. Then I heard the very loud bang!

It happened too fast that I did not get to scream for help nor do something. I saw the tree standing on our Neighbor 02's roof all I could think of was Jr because under the roof where the very big branch stood is his room and I know that during that time he was there sleeping. Then I saw the tree coming toward our house but fell short and did not reach our terrace. it fell on our open area and smashed on my father's two week old multicab.

The right side mirror broke while the back plastic window got distorted and the roof splitted into two. Mama's yellow bells and orchids were pinned under the tree. On a normal day, we would be beside the multicab. Elle would be swimming in her rubber swimming pool while I make sure that she has ample water. Fortunately, two days before that day, Mama told me to transfer the swimming pool in the second floor instead. (Elle was only able to swim once in the second floor and I think that's where she got her fever - it was too cold and windy in the second floor.) Just imagine if it was an ordinary day and I did not listen to my mother's advise.


The helper of Neighbor 01 who was cutting down the tree almost kneeled in front of my mother for forgiveness. He was trembling and in a state of shock because he thought somebody was pinned down on the very big branch. (somebody from Neighbor 02 screamed that a child was pinned down). He said that he has no money and would be willing to go to jail for the damages. But, when the police asked whether they should do an investigation - the helper can be detained for negligence resulting to damage to properties, Mama said that we will just settle it among ourselves.


Amidst the damage, I still thank God that nobody was harmed. Neighbor 01 and his helper learned a valuable lesson from this experience. I was also enlightened how fast life can be snatched from me any second. I should be grateful for the simple reason that I am alive to experience and survive this incident.



*attached pix were not taken on the day the mango tree fell on my father's car. pix show the same spot where elle was standing and the green dress that i was making when it happened

Friday, April 24, 2009

Elle Marie and Mama in WORKING MOM Magazine

Last Sunday, I chanced upon a back issue of Working Mom Magazine - August 2008 with Donita Rose and her son in the cover. It's been awhile since I bought WM magazine because I was not as interested with their covers but Donita was a welcome face to me so I bought one.
I love WM magazine because it is not as commercialized as the other mom magazines plus it offers a lot of advises that are very applicable to me. I also like their layout, very refreshing to the eyes.
I would read WM magazine from front to back cover. I also buy back issues to make sure that I don't miss a good advise. I love reading the articles about their celebrity covers as well as looking at the latest featured fashion for moms and toddlers. I always look forward to the "letters" and "baby picture" corner every month. Hoping that either my letter or more importantly Elle's photo will be published. I once told myself that "just once"... just one time that they feature Elle Marie and I would be one of the happiest persons on earth!


That is why, when I read the name "Elle Mari" in their August 2008 issue I said to myself... "I am 100% sure it was a typo error. Who in this world would name her daughter Elle Mari? An Elle Marie is better! Then I immediately checked the name of the letter sender and saw my name... Ella Oplas!!!

Haha it was like winning a lottery! I immediately called my parents and showed them the magazine! I made Elle Marie read her name! I texted Noy! and I had these pages scanned so I can share it with the whole world!I remembered that I have been emailing Dedet, the editor-in-chief of WM last year. I was sharing with her how I met one mom in the internet because of WM and how I like their official blog. I remembered telling her how much I really loved their issue with Vicky Morales! not because I am a "Kapuso" but because I like Vicky Morales. I have always admired her poise and good smile. I remembered (I still have her email) receiving an email from her and felt privileged because I know how busy she is. I did not know that my letter was one of the featured letter in their aUGUST 2008 issue. Just imagine if I knew...

One dream down... next I am hoping that they publish Elle's photo! I love WM magazine!











Monday, April 20, 2009

Hi Five Alive! in La Paz, Iloilo City!

Luningning, one of the eight white, well-loved japanese spitz of my mother gave birth to five cute puppies the other night. (the other seven are Jolly, Katrina, Queen, Alona, Sarah, Poknat, and Pogi) During the first two days after she gave birth, Elle and I were restrained from entering the masters bedroom as my mother confined them in one corner of the room. Luningning might think that we will harm her puppies and bite us if she sees us in the room.

When my mother finally invited us in the room to look at the puppies, Elle was jumping up and down with excitement. She would count the puppies every hour! one two three four five... hi five! that's where it all started. We proposed to Lola Moyette to name the puppies Tim, Nathan, Kellie, Kathleen and Charlie! How I wish I can bring all five puppies with us to Manila...

I used to have two japanese spitz with me when I was single. Vampy and Zorro. They both came from Iloilo. They used to live with us in our apartment in Makati but now, Vampy is in Pangasinan while Zorro died two years ago in an accident. I miss Vampy and Zorro. I wish that when Elle grows older, she will be able to find two pets as sweet and good as Vampy and Zorro


Friday, April 10, 2009

Bakasyon Grande sa Iloilo City!!!



Elle Marie and I are in Iloilo City now. We will be here for more than one month. We will be staying with my parents in La Paz and will be visiting my in-laws in Cadiz City maybe after holy week. Elle Marie and I are doing this because of five reasons. First, it has been my outstanding promise to my parents to let them bond with Elle and this would be a great time to do it - Elle Marie don't have classes and I don't have work, hence we can stay long in Iloilo to bond with them.

Second, it is my father's birthday on April 6. It was his wish to have all his family to be home with him. Nene and Bebe are flying in just before holy week. It would be the first time to have everybody at home for the holy week, perfect for my father's birthday.

Third, Noy is leaving for San Francisco for two weeks in March. I don't have a helper since October and it is very difficult to be alone at home alone with Elle Marie. I need help and I can get all the help I can here in Iloilo. I have Mama here to help me take good care of Elle Marie. I have Fely to cook and do my laundry. I have Papa or one of his helpers to drive us around the city. Life is so easy here in Iloilo compared to Makati.

Fourth, I am hoping to get a helper from Iloilo. I am planning to interview a couple of applicants and see if we match. I hope I get far more better yaya from the previous one I got from Iloilo - bad decision.

Fifth, it has been one of my long overdue "things to do" to completely rest and do things I want to do but could not because I am a mother now. Don't get me wrong, I am not complaining about having Elle Marie. I wanted to take good care of Elle Marie so much that I feel so guilty everytime "resting alone" comes in my mind. I don't know. I think I have separation anxiety that everytime i am resting, I end up worrying about her! Now, I don't have to worry. I can have my much awaited rest while Elle Marie plays with her lola and lolo...

I thank God for supportive and loving parents. I thank God for Iloilo City! I know Elle Marie and I will have a great time here!

Tuesday, April 7, 2009

Happy Birthday Lolo Leo!!!

My father turned 57 yesterday. We went to Bantayan Resort in Guimbal. We frequent this resort even though it is four towns away from Iloilo because it is one of the cleanest in Iloilo.

This year, Papa asked us to be complete on his birthday. A request that was never asked by my father before... it never happened on the day of his actual birthday because both of my sisters have work that they couldn't leave in Manila but, they arrived two days later for the holy week.

Papa was so happy. He is not the expressive type but a smile on his face would mean a million happiness to see all his girls together. Papa was not the malambing na tatay type as well but it was a welcome surprise for me to see him carrying and playing with Elle. There was one time that we ride with him to the nearest store. The whole very quick trip, Elle was caressing his right hand and calling his name. He would smile and Elle would again say "lolo","lolo"... When we were about to go down to the store, he gave Elle P100 for her merienda!!!

I usually don't tell my father how much I am so proud of him and how much i truly love him. Maybe because we are not expressive... maybe because I grew up in Manila... or just maybe i didn't have the chance to tell him... I remembered sending him a card expressing my love for him. I was surprised to see that card tucked under the class on his office table! I was soo touched that time. This time, I told him that I love him and if only I could leave Elle with them I would because I know that they will love her the same way they loved me....

I love you Papa! Happy birthday

Monday, April 6, 2009

Bisita iglesia sa Iloilo...

It has been a tradition by our family in Iloilo City to do the "Bisita Iglesia" every Lenten Season. We would visit seven (sometimes more than seven) churches and offer prayers to Jesus Christ. Bisita Iglesia is supposed to be the last time for Christians to pray with Jesus Christ before the guards catch him and subject him to death.

I remember, Nene would drive us around the city. We would sometimes invite her friends or our neighbors to ride with us. It was a great bonding time for me and my sisters because this is one of the few activities that we have a chance to do together (since I studied in Manila). This year, Noy was the one who drove us around while Mama served a the guide.

First stop:La Paz Church. We literally grew up in this church. We had our first communion, flores de mayo, and every catholic tradition that we think of with this church. This photo is courtesy of www.exploreiloilo.com.
Second stop: St. Clements Church. We always hear mass in St. Clements Church because Mama really loves their sermons. I also love the interiors of this church. Simple, serene and classy. I wanted to have my wedding here but it was not available for my wedding date.
Third Stop: St Joseph the Worker Church. It is the first time for me to set foot on this church. I have been fascinated by this church every time I visit Mt Carmel Convent but never got to stop and go inside. It's good that we went for the Bisita Iglesia at least now, I know what is in store for me if I go to St. Joseph Church.
Fourth Stop: Jaro Cathedral. This is the famous Jaro Cathedral. Famous for its' interiors and history. They said that the Nuestra Senora de Candelaria is miraculous that is why it is not new to see very long lines of devotees outside the cathedral. Jaro Cathedral is one of the cathedrals that Pope John Paul visited in the country. Fifth Stop: San Jose Church. This is the church where Noy and I exchanged vows. This is also the church where Elle Marie fell asleep . So we headed back home and offered prayers to Jesus Christ on our own rooms.